歌曲:《Father Time》
歌手:Kendrick Lamar / Sampha
专辑:Mr. Morale & The Big Steppers
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《Father Time》歌词:
[00:00.000] 作词 : Craig Balmoris
[00:01.000] 作曲 : Craig Balmoris
[00:03.413]You really need some therapy
[00:05.781]Real nigga need no therapy, **** you talkin' about?
[00:07.424]Nah, nah, you sound stupid as ****
[00:08.892]Shit, everybody stupid
[00:10.317]Yeah, well, you need to talk to someone
[00:13.661]Reach out to Eckhart
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[00:29.868]I come from a generation of home invasions and I got daddy issues, that's on me
[00:34.890]Everything them four walls had taught me, made habits bury deep
[00:38.031]That man knew a lot, but not enough to keep me past them streets
[00:40.991]My life is a plot, twisted from directions that I can't see
[00:44.154]Daddy issues all across my head, told him, "**** a foul"
[00:47.396]I'm teary-eyed, wanna throw my hands, I won't think out loud
[00:50.571]A foolish pride, if I lose again, won't go in the house
[00:53.623]I stayed outside, laughin' with my friends, they don't know my lifе
[00:56.834]Daddy issues made me lеarn losses, I don't take those well
[01:00.044]Momma said, "That boy is exhausted," he said, "Go **** yourself
[01:03.136]If he give up now, that's gon' cost him, life's a bitch
[01:06.209]You could be a bitch or step out the margin," I got up quick
[01:09.238]I'm chargin' baskets and falling backwards, tryna keep balance
[01:12.371]Oh, this the part where mental stability meets talent
[01:15.516]Oh, this the part, he breaks my humility just for practice
[01:18.733]Tactics we learned together, sore losers forever, daddy issues
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[01:22.287]Early mornin' wake-ups (Ah), practicin' on day-offs (Ah)
[01:25.256]Tough love (Ah), bottled up, no chaser (Ah)
[01:28.296]Neat, no chaser (Ah), neat, no chaser (Ah)
[01:31.433]Neat, no chaser (Ah), neat, no chase
[01:34.728]Early mornin' wake-ups (Ah), practicin' on day-offs (Ah, day-offs)
[01:37.831]Tough love (Ah), bottled up, no chaser (Ah)
[01:40.931]Neat, no chaser (Ah), neat, no chaser (Ah)
[01:44.156]Neat, no chaser (Ah), neat, no chaser
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[01:48.820]I got daddy issues, that's on me
[01:50.556]Lookin' for, "I love you," rarely empathizin' for my relief
[01:53.628]A child that grew accustomed, jumping up when I scraped my knee
[01:56.770]'Cause if I cried about it, he'd surely tell me not to be weak
[01:59.899]Daddy issues, hid my emotions, never expressed myself
[02:03.097]Men should never show feelings, being sensitive never helped
[02:06.268]His momma died, I asked him why he goin' back to work so soon?
[02:09.318]His first reply was, "Son, that's life, the bills got no silver spoon"
[02:12.765]Daddy issues, **** everybody, go get your money, son
[02:15.760]Protect yourself, trust nobody, only your momma'n'em
[02:18.902]This made relationships seem cloudy, never attached to none
[02:22.083]So if you took some likings around me, I might reject the love
[02:25.173]Daddy issues kept me competitive, that's a fact, nigga
[02:28.432]I don't give a **** what's the narrative, I am that nigga
[02:31.598]When Kanye got back with Drake, I was slightly confused
[02:34.801]Guess I'm not mature as I think, got some healin' to do
[02:37.943]Egotistic, zero-given ****s and to be specific (Ah)
[02:40.584]Need assistance with the way I was brought up (Ah, ah)
[02:43.144]What's the difference when your heart is made of stone
[02:45.425]And your mind is made of gold
[02:47.075]And your tongue is made of sword, but it weaken your soul?
[02:50.158]My niggas ain't got no daddy, grow up overcompensatin'
[02:53.329]Learn shit 'bout bein' a man and disguise it as bein' gangsta
[02:56.696]I love my father for tellin' me to take off the gloves
[02:59.967]'Cause everything he didn't want was everything I was
[03:03.082]And to my partners that figured it out without a father
[03:06.029]I salute you, your blessings be neutral to your toddlers
[03:09.045]It's crucial, they can't stop us if we see the mistakes
[03:12.104]'Til then, let's give the women a break, grown men with daddy issues
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[03:28.434]Early mornin' wake-ups (Ah), practicin' on day-offs (Ah, day-offs)
[03:31.595]Tough love (Ah), bottled up, no chaser (Ah)
[03:34.558]Neat, no chaser (Ah), neat, no chaser (Ah)
[03:37.838]Neat, no chaser (Ah), neat, no chaser
[00:03.413] “你真的需要一些心理治疗”
[00:05.781] “真男人不需要啥心理治疗,你在说什么鬼话?”
[00:07.424] “不不,你这么说话听起来太傻了”
[00:08.892] “我看每个人都是傻子”
[00:10.317] “你真的需要和别人好好聊聊”
[00:13.661] “向Eckhart Tolle寻求帮助(Eckhart Tolle是世界著名心灵导师)”
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[00:29.868] 我出生的这一代,入室抢劫屡见不鲜,而父亲对我的影响良多
[00:34.890] 我的家庭教育告诫了我:一定不能沾染恶习(four walls“四壁”代指家)
[00:38.031] 我的父亲知道很多道理,但还不足以让我完全远离街头生活
[00:40.991] 我的人生如同一出戏剧,总会有我难以预见的“转折”,(plot twist wordplay)(照应上句,父亲严苛的教育方式并不能完全避免Kendrick被街头文化影响)
[00:44.154] 每当这时父亲说过的话总会浮现在我脑海,告诉我“不要走上歧途”
[00:47.396] 我当时泪眼汪汪,想要辩驳,但我不会表露出来(throw hands双关,既有身体对抗的意思,也有打口水仗的意思)
[00:50.571] 这是一种“愚蠢的自尊”,如果我再输一次的话,我便不敢再踏入家门
[00:53.623] 我只能呆在外面,尽管我和朋友们一起逗趣调笑,但他们并不了解我的生活如何
[00:56.834] 父亲的影响使我学着接受挫折失败,但我并不能完全理解
[01:00.044] 母亲总是会来安慰我“我知道你尽力了”而父亲只会说“滚出去好好想想你是怎么失败的”
[01:03.136] “如果他现在就轻言放弃的话,以后他会吃更大的亏”人生就是这般无常
[01:06.209] 面对困难你要么做个懦夫要么去尽力克服它,我很快便重整旗鼓
[01:09.238] 我如同打篮球一样,不断持球得分,倒下再起身,想要保持平衡
[01:12.371] 就在这时,我的天赋与稳定的心理逐渐融合
[01:15.516] 就在这时,父亲让我把“谦卑”抛在脑后,不断展现自己的天赋
[01:18.733] 我们一起制定了前进的方向,这使得我永远无法接受失败,这都是父亲对我的影响(sore losers意为输不起的人)
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[01:22.287] 在清晨早早起床,休息日也勤学苦练
[01:25.256] 严厉的爱,使我将感情埋藏在心,痛饮烈酒排解情绪(bottle双关)
[01:28.296] 痛饮烈酒来压抑情绪,无需淡酒清口(neat指纯酒,而chaser指与烈酒混饮的淡酒)
[01:31.433] 痛饮烈酒来压抑情绪,无需淡酒清口(daddy issues使得Kendrick过度压抑自己的真情实感,只能靠酗酒排解情绪)
[01:34.728] 在清晨早早起床,休息日也勤学苦练
[01:37.831] 严厉的爱,使我将感情埋藏在心,痛饮烈酒排解情绪
[01:40.931] 痛饮烈酒来压抑情绪,无需淡酒清口
[01:44.156] 痛饮烈酒来压抑情绪,无需淡酒清口
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[01:48.820] 父亲对我影响很大,在我成年后亦然(Daddy issues对成年后的Kendrick起到了很多负面影响)
[01:50.556] 有的人一心寻求亲密感情,但我却很难对“我爱你”产生共鸣
[01:53.628] 童年的我逐渐习惯了父亲的严厉,每当我摔倒划伤膝盖的时候我都会立刻起身
[01:56.770] 因为我知道如果我为此向他哭诉,他一定会告诉我“不要做一个弱者”
[01:59.899] 父亲的影响使我掩藏了自己的真实情感,从来不会向外界表达自己
[02:03.097] “一个男人永远不应该展露自己的情绪,多愁善感永无益处”(Daddy issues使得很多男性将正常的表达感情看作是“不男人的““无意义的”)
[02:06.268] 我的奶奶去世,我问父亲为何还要匆匆赶去工作
[02:09.318] 他回复我的第一句话是“儿子,人生就是这样,毕竟我们并非富贵之家”
[02:12.765] 父亲对我的影响使我不在乎任何人的感受,一心只想着努力挣钱
[02:15.760] 父亲告诉我“为了保护你自己,除了你的母亲以外其他人谁也不要相信”
[02:18.902] 这使得我在亲密关系中寸步难行,因为我从来不会对任何人敞开心扉
[02:22.083] 所以如果你想要主动向我示好,我很可能会拒绝你的这份好意
[02:25.173] “父亲的影响”使我一直争强好胜,这是个事实(Daddy issues会使得男性认为自己和其他男性都是竞争关系)
[02:28.432] 我从来不在乎他人的评价或印象,我只想成为天选之子
[02:31.598] 当Kanye和Drake重归于好的时候(Free Larry Hoover),我稍微有些疑惑不解
[02:34.801] 我猜我并没有我想的那么成熟,确实需要一些心理治疗(Daddy issues使得Kendrick难以理解为何二人这么大的beef会这样草草收场)
[02:37.943] 具体来说,(父亲的影响)使得我以自我为中心,什么都不在乎
[02:40.584] 我成长过程中(父亲的)教育方式也有很多缺陷(在这里Kendrick终于承认了Daddy issues对他的心理健康和家庭关系造成了很大的不良影响)
[02:43.144] 当你的心如同铁石造就,(当你一心想树立一个“严父”的形象)
[02:45.425] 而你的思维犹如黄金铸就,(即使你有正确的教育方向)
[02:47.075] 但你的嘴里却永远只有冷言冷语,(可你却从来不会展露父爱)那岂不是重蹈覆辙?(这样依然会削弱孩子的心理健康)
[02:50.158] 我的很多兄弟生来便没有父亲,因此他们的成长过程中不断“矫枉过正”(父亲角色的缺失使得很多黑人青年对“男子气概”形成了错误认知)
[02:53.329] 他们也学着成为一个“真男人”,但却以为加入帮伙作恶即可如愿
[02:56.696] 我的父亲告诫我要“保持强硬,不断竞争” (远离街头争斗),这的确使我受益匪浅(take off the gloves双关)
[02:59.967] 只因我最终依然在他不想让我走上的道路上越走越远((Daddy issues最终也没能阻止Kendrick走向街头生活)
[03:03.082] 致我那些生来便没有父亲却依然悟出了这个道理的伙伴同胞——
[03:06.029] 我向你致敬,希望你的人生智慧可以好好地传递给下一代
[03:09.045] 这至关重要,如果我们看到了(我们在家庭生活)中的问题所在,他们便无法阻挡我们
[03:12.104] 在那之前,我们这些成年之后依然饱受“父亲的影响”困扰的男人们,应该让女人们好好休息一下,不要再让我们的下一代承受这些苦楚(Daddy issues使得很多男性无法正确处理亲密关系,会加重性别刻板印象的塑造)
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[03:28.434] 在清晨早早起床,休息日也勤学苦练
[03:31.595] 严厉的爱,使我将感情埋藏在心,痛饮烈酒排解情绪
[03:34.558] 痛饮烈酒来压抑情绪,无需淡酒清口
[03:37.838] 痛饮烈酒来压抑情绪,无需淡酒清口